In today's Miss Manners column, advice columnist Judith Martin responds to addressing personal questions about hair color.

I feel inclined to explain that it once was, but that I currently dye it. However, that feels awkward and unnecessary.

GENTLE READER: The argument that compels Miss Manners the most is that soda water is not otherwise on the menu. Is this true for every establishment? That would be the question to ask: “May I have a ...