Saying "thank you" in person is a great way to show your appreciation, but taking the time to sit down and write a thoughtful ...

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The rest of a thank-you message would then be in the singular, save for a reiteration or two of how much your husband (or you, if he is writing it) enjoys the present too. Then only the writer ...